It was Mid-Summer’s
Day and at the centre where I work it was also the Fiftieth Anniversary Summer Fete
and, to top it all, the sun shone all day!
also my 55th birthday!
year I enjoyed the biggest party that I have ever had, in fact a huge summer
fete with hundreds of guests. For me, Évi and our school children it was
preceded by our second conductive sleepover. This meant that I had the nicest
birthday breakfast that I have ever had too!
|Getting ready for breakfast treats|
|An early riser, painting|
|My birthday train in the foreground|
school children have been asking since December last year, when we had our
first conductive sleepover, whether they could do it again. It was not easy to
find a day to suit everyone but with the Summer Fete a date in everyone’s calendar we
went for it.
sadly do not have as many opportunities to stay over at a friend’s house as do
their non-disabled peers though, since they tried and tested it with us last
year, there have been quite a few other successful nights out!
and Little Princess are actually getting quite adept at organizing a weekend
together and then announcing it to their parents later. Just like many children
do. They have realized that it is possible and they really enjoy it, especially
with us when we make a real party of the whole event.
year they made a birthday party for me out of the event and they even allowed
me to sleep in another room after I had played and read and wished them all
goodnight, of course! I was still to sleep on the floor on the big blue mat,
still to be snuggled in my sleeping bag but I did not have to wake up in the
night to accompany anyone to the bathroom or listen to anyone snoring. Instead I
got up early, opened my cards and prepared the breakfast table. I made an early
morning cup of cocoa for anyone who was up and I played with whoever got up early before we went to
wake the late risers!
|The late risers!|
planned breakfast for 8.30am, with other colleagues’ cycling over early to join us before
making their own preparations for the fete.
organized to stay overnight with the children to coincide with the Summer Fete
so we, the conductors, only had to give up one weekend. We had to be there for
the fete anyway. This also meant that the children had lots to keep them busy
before their parents took them home.
A week of preparations
Our contribution to the fete was to be an
exhibition of out art work and a bit of street artistry - that’s chalk drawing in
frames drawn on the ground. Just like in the scenes outside the park gates in
the film Mary Poppins, where Julie
Andrews, Dick van Dyke and the children jump into the paintings to take their
‘happy holidays’ eating tea with the penguins and riding on
|A bit of Mary Poppins|
In the days before the fete our children put
finishing touches to their paintings, helped to design flyers on the computer
to distribute at the fete, and they made detailed plans for the sleepover.
Right down to discussing who was to sleep next to whom?
Wednesday afternoon the children planned the meals, on Thursday they each made a
shopping list that hopefully they could read when in the shop, and on Friday
each child took a purse filled with coins and notes, and their own list, to the
shops, accompanied by me, Évi and a couple of helpers. We walked the half-hour
there and back with two children taking their walking-bikes.
integration, inclusion and conductive upbringing, these children do not get to
go shopping as much as they would like, so they attacked this outing with glee
and it was a delight to be with them.
had decided to take my bike trailer with them to carry their wares instead of
each carrying a shopping bag.
have looked a sight to passers-by, just like Enid Blyton’s Secret Seven off on
a great adventure. The sun was shining too just as it always seemed to do in Enid
Blyton’s wonderful stories.
|Seven off on an adventure!|
children were brilliant in the supermarket, calling one or the other of us
whenever they needed a hand, otherwise doing quite well on their own with lists
attached to shopping trolleys and walking bike, and purses hung around their
|Shopping for Schampingyonks, that is how he spelt it!|
|And he found them!|
the food stored in the fridge on our return the children went home for just one
more sleep before their next adventure, sleeping-over conductively!
only did I get to sleep in a room on my own on the big day, I also got a couple
of hours off during the eve of my birthday. I was sent away and I had to
promise not to come back until I was called. So I took my book and made myself
comfortable in the office with a pot of tea and some biscuits.
following morning, after I had prepared the breakfast table, I was sent away
again for ten minutes.
returned to find the results of the secret evening session. A wonderful flower
arrangement adorned the table and on the table in front of my place there was a
train, a cake train decorated with sweets and creams and chocolate! There was
also a pile of presents!
had had a hand in making the train the evening before and had taken photographs
to prove it!
must admit I had smelt the baking but I had no idea that I would be receiving a
model train to eat.
|My lovely birthday flowers|
|A train in the making|
|Mmmmm, it was delicious! Yes I did eat it in the end|
wonderful secret to have kept, no one had said a word.
Taking it in their
making our own toasted sandwiches for breakfast, using everything under the sun
and in the fridge left over from the night before's pizzas, from bars of mint chocolate, bananas and pineapple, cheese,
ham and tomato, we prepared ourselves for the fete.
packed, teeth cleaned and glad-rags donned, we transported our paintings and
games to the fete, only a few metres away from our conductive Bed and Breakfast.
was beavering away and the time flew by as we prepared for our al fresco art exhibition and drew frames
on the ground in the street-drawing area.
one-by-one, the parents arrived and it was so interesting to hear which stories
about the conductive sleep-over got retold the most. I really enjoyed observing
that this second time round the children just took everything in their stride.
No one had asked what the time was or when the parents would be coming, no one
even mentioned what the family would be doing at home without them, and,
fortunately, no one had been so excited that they could not fall asleep.
children have really grown up in the last six months, they have learnt so much
and have become so independent. They all enjoyed every single second of our
conductive, birthday and anniversary sleep-over and fete.
I know that I enjoyed it even more than they did. It was wonderful not to wake up on
my birthday alone at home. I think I can honestly say that it was the best birthday
since the days of Enid Blyton-style birthdays on the beach.
cannot wait until the next sleepover, perhaps on Évi’s birthday!
half the paintings, making 80 Euros for the painting material kitty.